<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of sukh</title><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of sukh</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>what u say........</title><description><![CDATA[<span style="font-style: italic;">Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away they were<BR>meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,<BR>or to figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know<BR>who these people may be but you lock eyes with them and you know that<BR>very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.</span><br style="font-style: italic;"><br style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-style: italic;">And<BR>sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible,<BR>painful, and unfair, but in reflection of you realize that without<BR>overcoming those obstacles you would never would realize your<BR>potential, strength, will power, or heart. </span><br style="font-style: italic;"><br style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Everything happens<BR>for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness,<BR>love, and lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all acure<BR>to test limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be<BR>like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to know where safe and<BR>comfortable but dull and otterly pointless.</span><br style="font-style: italic;"><br style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-style: italic;">The people you meet<BR>affect your life. The successes and the downfalls that you experience<BR>can create whom you are and the bad experiences can be learned from. In<BR>fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone<BR>hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them because they<BR>have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious<BR>to whom you open your heart to.</span><br style="font-style: italic;"><br style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-style: italic;">If someone loves you, love them<BR>back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because<BR>they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little<BR>things. Make everything count. Appreciate everything you possibly can,<BR>for you may never experience it again.</span><br style="font-style: italic;"><br style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Talk to people whom you<BR>have never talked to before and actually listen. Let yourself fall in<BR>love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because<BR>you have ever right to. Tell yourself you're a great individual and<BR>believe in yourself, no on else will believe in you. Create your own<BR>life and then go out and live it.</span><BR><BR>]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2008 14:59:12 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/02/01/what-u-say-.html</link></item><item><title>LIFE JUST ISN'T....</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 69.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-GB><STRONG><EM><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">   </SPAN>Life isn't about keeping store, its not about how many people call you. Its not about who you have dated, are dated, are dating or haven't dated at all. It is not who you ave kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It's not about your shoes, your hair, the color of your skin or where you go to school. Infact it's not about money, clothes, or the college that accepts you or not. Life isn't about if you have lot of friends or if u are alone and its not about who accepted or unaccepted you. It's not about job that you get and the money that you earn. Life just isn't about that.</EM></STRONG></SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 69.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-GB><STRONG><EM><SPAN style="mso-tab-count: 1">                       </SPAN>But....life is about whom you love and who you hurt. It is about how you fill yourself. It's about standing up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. It's about trust, happiness and companionship. Life is about avoiding jealously....overcoming ignorance and building confidence. Its about what you say and what you mean. Its about what you do for your nativity. Its about seeing people for what they are and not what they have. Most of all it's about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have achieved fun otherwise. These choices are what ''LIFE'' is about.</EM></STRONG></SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 21:25:48 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/29/LIFE-JUST-ISN-T-.html</link></item><item><title>BANGLES AND THE RED DRESS</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; tab-stops: 69.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-GB>Sapna still had a juventile attitude, what else could be a girl of 8-9 years. Schooling was never an exemplary option for Hari Ram's only daughter, who had nothing but penury legacy. Hari Ram fixed her marriage to 14 years old boy. Sapna was petty euphorient about her nuptials and more about the added accessories- Bangles and the Red dress. She would talk about it to everyone in her voice and they'd laugh at her inane behaviour. The vivacious girl could not help dreaming about the bangles and the red dress. Well the day came  bamboos, frills and a small marquee were all set up for sapna's wedding. The atmosphere was elated and filled with exuberance. The bride at last had her bangles and red dress. But the destiny had something else in store. Her fiancé died that very day. Unfazed and unperturbed, she was playing with her weeding supplementaries. The hue and cry in the verandah was unfathomable for the young bride. The senescent womenfolk broke her bangles and snatched her dress. She was forced to wear white. Her cries couldn't even soften her debilitated parents as they watched everything. Sapna was still demanding her bangles and stuff. The girl cried for them for three days and ate nothing. She had grown feeble but Hari Ram couldn't provide her what she wanted as he couldn't take on his flagrant coterie. The girl had to learn to live in white without her bangles and the red dress. </SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 19:46:09 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/29/BANGLES-AND-THE-RED-DRESS.html</link></item><item><title>BUT YOU WERE NOT THERE</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>I woke up for you, I dressed for you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>Then I looked out for you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>But you were not there.</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>I went to college for you, I classed for you </SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>And then searched for you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>But you were not there.</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>I was depressed; I went to the lake for you.</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>And then I sang for you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>But you were not there.</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>I cried for you, I asked for you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>And I waited for you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>But still you were not there.</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>The last thing I did was dying for you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>And, I waited at my funeral for you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>But still you were not there.</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>From deep inside the earth, came a thought of you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>I had done nothing to find you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>And you started coming there.</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>I knew where hidden were you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>I hadn't looked there for you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>Inside my own self were you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>And I had done nothing to explore you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>Now I can do nothing to have you</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>Sorry my own self, sorry my conscience</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>Now I knew you were there</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>Right inside me when I thought</SPAN></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; tab-stops: 69.0pt" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-GB>You were there.</SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 19:45:44 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/29/BUT-YOU-WERE-NOT-THERE.html</link></item><item><title>life</title><description><![CDATA[<BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Lonely as ever,</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Waithing for happiness to strike</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">- My soul</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Dry as deserts,</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Longing for the water of life</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">To have mercy.</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">In my world</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">The trees are white</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">The earth black</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Humans red and sky in flames.</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">It would change?</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Gods to Gods unaware</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">My moon is burning</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">For that was mine</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Never shared or either betrayed</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">As pure as always been</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Unable to protect it</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">For its far away</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Out of my reach</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Only to be felt, never to be<BR>touched</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">I know nothing will change</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">I have to live with truth.</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Accept it until is too late.</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Life may have been</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Born in deserts</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">And shall die there too or</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">You wish the forgoing arms</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Of ice bergs</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">To ring the <b style="">bell?</b></p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Your life is summer or</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">It is autumn</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">One is burning and</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">The other, chilling.</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Not other way round.</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Find your life</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">I them both</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">You ll see,</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Its pretty too,</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Enjoy it ...</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Before its too late</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">And</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Gets dark for you to</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal" style="">Reach home.</p><BR><BR>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2008 15:55:37 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/28/life.html</link></item><item><title>LOVE AND ORDER</title><description><![CDATA[<BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal">''Nobody should teach us how to express love''<br><span style=""> </span>''Someone'' while<BR>reiterating his opposition to 'V' day celebration, ''nobody should teach us how<BR>not to express love'' could will be the response of the young &amp; young at<BR>heart who like to do their own things on Valentines day. According to me there<BR>is nothing wrong if sections of Indian youth express their mutual love through<BR>greeting cards or at parties. Infact youth may well argue that printing of lakhs greetings<BR>cards could even generate jobs. Someone said that v' day is alien to Indian<BR>culture, counter argument could well be that chanting of Hare Rama Hare Krishna<BR>by English &amp; American youth subscribing to ''ISKCON'' is alien to western culture.<BR>Both are motivated by love, whether of physical or spiritual kind. Someone once<BR>prescribed,'' who can give law to lovers? Love is greater law onto himself''.<BR>In '' The Communication'' John Donne said, ''for God sake, hold your tounge,<BR>let me love''. Thomas hardy said, '' When shall the softer, saner politics,<BR>whom of we dream, have play in each proud land'' </p><BR><BR>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2008 13:42:09 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/28/LOVE-AND-ORDER.html</link></item><item><title>HOW WILL YOU KNOW UNLESS I TELL U</title><description><![CDATA[<BR><p class="MsoNormal">We are gifted with the power of words, with which we can<BR>express ourselves, our feelings, joys and sorrows to others. But words are not<BR>only the source of our knowledge about others and their personality. If we care<BR>for and love someone, words may not be necessary. A kindness, a noble deed,<BR>speaks volume of our love. I still remember the days when I was in school. I<BR>hadn't made any special friends. Suddenly I fell ill and couldn't go to school<BR>for some days. I just sat at my bed room window and felt lonely. Yet many a<BR>times I wanted someone to talk to. I was feeling bored one afternoon, when<BR>someone knocked at my door. There stood a girl, my classmate. She handed me a<BR>lovely rosebud with a note attached to it,'' GET WELL SOON''. Tears welled up<BR>in my eyes. I was so happy I become aware that someone cared for me and missed<BR>me. From that day onwards she has been my best friend. So you see it she hadn't<BR>come up to me and told me that she really loved me, how could I have know?<BR>Frankly one is quite ignorant or confuse about the thoughts in another person's<BR>mind. If you really cares for someone, do tell then you may give them hope and<BR>much encouragement to live in this world of strangers. Don't just hide yourself<BR>behind the mystery caricature of selfishness &amp; ego.</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal">Tell them that you care!</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal">How will they know unless you tell them?</p><BR><BR><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p><BR><BR>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2008 13:38:49 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/28/HOW-WILL-YOU-KNOW-UNLESS-I-TELL-U.html</link></item><item><title>I, He And Myself</title><description><![CDATA[<font size="5"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">A human being first responsibility is to shake hands with himself.</span></font><BR><BR>]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2008 17:23:06 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/25/I-He-And-Myself.html</link></item><item><title>Where Love Is, God Is</title><description><![CDATA[<font size="3"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;">    Today many of us see God only in the holy places. God , too, has been pigeon holed into a small cmpartment. But the truth is thet where there isLove, God is also there. The tendency of most people is to look extremely and to the objects of the world. so, they see God only in limited places. but, if a true feeling of Love developes then we can find God everywhere.</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;">    We do prayers which gives peace to the mind, happiness as well as contenment. And where there is a bond of love, holiness and happiness also develop. God is the greatest power. he is the creator of life. at his will each and every activity of this world takes place. Love has also a strong power that it can transform a beast into a soft-hearted creatur/ it can make possible the seemingly impossible.</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;">    Love is the mirror of God. where there i love, a lively and holy atmosphere is created. so, when the feeling of love develops in a person's heart his soule is touched by god.</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;">    thus we can say, ''Where Love Is, God Is.''</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; font-family: Times New Roman,Times,serif;"></font>]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2008 17:01:48 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/25/Where-Love-Is-God-Is.html</link></item><item><title>LOVE</title><description><![CDATA[<font style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); background-color: rgb(255, 255, 153);" size="4"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Love is a dream that's shared by two</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">who promise to make it come true.</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">A golden wish that both will be</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">turning ro reality.</span><br style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"></font><BR><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home2/281/8dc2243f14b5a75244a0c3022c1f0922/homep/images/1201260222">]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2008 16:51:07 +0530</pubDate><link>http://lover143aqua.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/01/25/LOVE.html</link></item></channel></rss>