Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away they were
meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
or to figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know
who these people may be but you lock eyes with them and you know that
very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And
sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible,
painful, and unfair, but in reflection of you realize that without
overcoming those obstacles you would never would realize your
potential, strength, will power, or heart.

Everything happens
for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness,
love, and lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all acure
to test limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be
like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to know where safe and
comfortable but dull and otterly pointless.

The people you meet
affect your life. The successes and the downfalls that you experience
can create whom you are and the bad experiences can be learned from. In
fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone
hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them because they
have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious
to whom you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them
back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because
they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little
things. Make everything count. Appreciate everything you possibly can,
for you may never experience it again.

Talk to people whom you
have never talked to before and actually listen. Let yourself fall in
love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because
you have ever right to. Tell yourself you're a great individual and
believe in yourself, no on else will believe in you. Create your own
life and then go out and live it.

   Life isn’t about keeping store, its not about how many people call you. Its not about who you have dated, are dated, are dating or haven’t dated at all. It is not who you ave kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It’s not about your shoes, your hair, the color of your skin or where you go to school. Infact it’s not about money, clothes, or the college that accepts you or not. Life isn’t about if you have lot of friends or if u are alone and its not about who accepted or unaccepted you. It’s not about job that you get and the money that you earn. Life just isn’t about that.

                       But……….life is about whom you love and who you hurt. It is about how you fill yourself. It’s about standing up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. It’s about trust, happiness and companionship. Life is about avoiding jealously……….overcoming ignorance and building confidence. Its about what you say and what you mean. Its about what you do for your nativity. Its about seeing people for what they are and not what they have. Most of all it’s about choosing to use your life to touch someone else’s in a way that could never have achieved fun otherwise. These choices are what ‘’LIFE’’ is about.

Sapna still had a juventile attitude, what else could be a girl of 8-9 years. Schooling was never an exemplary option for Hari Ram’s only daughter, who had nothing but penury legacy. Hari Ram fixed her marriage to 14 years old boy. Sapna was petty euphorient about her nuptials and more about the added accessories- Bangles and the Red dress. She would talk about it to everyone in her voice and they’d laugh at her inane behaviour. The vivacious girl could not help dreaming about the bangles and the red dress. Well the day came – bamboos, frills and a small marquee were all set up for sapna’s wedding. The atmosphere was elated and filled with exuberance. The bride at last had her bangles and red dress. But the destiny had something else in store. Her fiancé died that very day. Unfazed and unperturbed, she was playing with her weeding supplementaries. The hue and cry in the verandah was unfathomable for the young bride. The senescent womenfolk broke her bangles and snatched her dress. She was forced to wear white. Her cries couldn’t even soften her debilitated parents as they watched everything. Sapna was still demanding her bangles and stuff. The girl cried for them for three days and ate nothing. She had grown feeble but Hari Ram couldn’t provide her what she wanted as he couldn’t take on his flagrant coterie. The girl had to learn to live in white without her bangles and the red dress.

I woke up for you, I dressed for you

Then I looked out for you

But you were not there.

I went to college for you, I classed for you

And then searched for you

But you were not there.

I was depressed; I went to the lake for you.

And then I sang for you

But you were not there.

I cried for you, I asked for you

And I waited for you

But still you were not there.

The last thing I did was dying for you

And, I waited at my funeral for you

But still you were not there.

From deep inside the earth, came a thought of you

I had done nothing to find you

And you started coming there.

I knew where hidden were you

I hadn’t looked there for you

Inside my own self were you

And I had done nothing to explore you

Now I can do nothing to have you

Sorry my own self, sorry my conscience

Now I knew you were there

Right inside me when I thought

You were there.

Lonely as ever,

Waithing for happiness to strike

- My soul

Dry as deserts,

Longing for the water of life

To have mercy.

In my world

The trees are white

The earth black

Humans red and sky in flames.

It would change?

Gods to Gods unaware

My moon is burning

For that was mine

Never shared or either betrayed

As pure as always been

Unable to protect it

For its far away

Out of my reach

Only to be felt, never to be
touched

I know nothing will change

I have to live with truth.

Accept it until is too late.

Life may have been

Born in deserts

And shall die there too or

You wish the forgoing arms

Of ice bergs

To ring the bell?

Your life is summer or

It is autumn

One is burning and

The other, chilling.

Not other way round.

Find your life

I them both

You ll see,

Its pretty too,

Enjoy it ………

Before its too late

And

Gets dark for you to

Reach home.

‘’Nobody should teach us how to express love’’
 ‘’Someone’’ while
reiterating his opposition to ‘V’ day celebration, ‘’nobody should teach us how
not to express love’’ could will be the response of the young & young at
heart who like to do their own things on Valentines day. According to me there
is nothing wrong if sections of Indian youth express their mutual love through
greeting cards or at parties. Infact youth may well argue that printing of lakhs greetings
cards could even generate jobs. Someone said that v’ day is alien to Indian
culture, counter argument could well be that chanting of Hare Rama Hare Krishna
by English & American youth subscribing to ‘’ISKCON’’ is alien to western culture.
Both are motivated by love, whether of physical or spiritual kind. Someone once
prescribed,’’ who can give law to lovers? Love is greater law onto himself’’.
In ‘’ The Communication’’ John Donne said, ’’for God sake, hold your tounge,
let me love’’. Thomas hardy said, ’’ When shall the softer, saner politics,
whom of we dream, have play in each proud land’’

We are gifted with the power of words, with which we can
express ourselves, our feelings, joys and sorrows to others. But words are not
only the source of our knowledge about others and their personality. If we care
for and love someone, words may not be necessary. A kindness, a noble deed,
speaks volume of our love. I still remember the days when I was in school. I
hadn’t made any special friends. Suddenly I fell ill and couldn’t go to school
for some days. I just sat at my bed room window and felt lonely. Yet many a
times I wanted someone to talk to. I was feeling bored one afternoon, when
someone knocked at my door. There stood a girl, my classmate. She handed me a
lovely rosebud with a note attached to it,’’ GET WELL SOON’’. Tears welled up
in my eyes. I was so happy I become aware that someone cared for me and missed
me. From that day onwards she has been my best friend. So you see it she hadn’t
come up to me and told me that she really loved me, how could I have know?
Frankly one is quite ignorant or confuse about the thoughts in another person’s
mind. If you really cares for someone, do tell then you may give them hope and
much encouragement to live in this world of strangers. Don’t just hide yourself
behind the mystery caricature of selfishness & ego.

Tell them that you care!

How will they know unless you tell them?

A human being first responsibility is to shake hands with himself.

    Today many of us see God only in the holy places. God , too, has been pigeon holed into a small cmpartment. But the truth is thet where there isLove, God is also there. The tendency of most people is to look extremely and to the objects of the world. so, they see God only in limited places. but, if a true feeling of Love developes then we can find God everywhere.
    We do prayers which gives peace to the mind, happiness as well as contenment. And where there is a bond of love, holiness and happiness also develop. God is the greatest power. he is the creator of life. at his will each and every activity of this world takes place. Love has also a strong power that it can transform a beast into a soft-hearted creatur/ it can make possible the seemingly impossible.
    Love is the mirror of God. where there i love, a lively and holy atmosphere is created. so, when the feeling of love develops in a person's heart his soule is touched by god.
    thus we can say, ''Where Love Is, God Is.''

Love is a dream that's shared by two
who promise to make it come true.
A golden wish that both will be
turning ro reality.